Relationhips

Today, I am writing about relationships. This is something that has been very heavy on my heart.

Webster defines relationship as; a connection, association, or involvement; a connection between persons by blood or marriage; an emotional or other connection between people; or sexual involvement; affair…etc.

Regardless of the type of relationship you may be involved in; one day, you may experience some level of hurt. Be it from a friend, family, or an exclusive union where both people in the relationship agree to be faithful and committed to each other; or a relationship where you and everyone said, “they are closer than close, a match made in heaven.” As final points, it could be a relationship that everyone saw as, put together by God; a relationship where both hearts felt comforted when they were close, or one you would have laid down your life and sacrificed your all for them. Then one day, for whatever reason, separation occurs and what you thought was secure, generates hurt and arouses rumors from others that the relationship was not all it appeared to be.

The bible says, ‘What God ordained and put together, no man can tear it apart”, but what about the person you so loved? What if he/she decides, they want more, that love just isn’t enough to retain the relationship? So, in your efforts to reaffirm, reconcile, restore the bond and rekindle the relationship you once enjoyed……you seek counseling; but your efforts were unsuccessful. They simply avoid the Word, Wisdom and Wonderful Warmth of the agreement. Perhaps that person just didn’t want to commit to responsibility, reportability, accountability, reliability or better yet, lovability. Could that person have reached a point of being ungrateful, disrespectful or displaying narcissistic tendencies? You know, having an inflated sense of their own importance by becoming so selfish with little regard for other people's feelings. It deals with love, and the conflict of being in love with someone hurtful to us. It hurts and hurts deep, resulting in a complex healing process.

When you hurt from such a relationship; the road to recovery could be difficult. But, guess what? There is a solution and victory when you turn it over to Jesus. He has your best interest at heart. Ask Him to help by imparting words of wisdom, giving you directions and strength to move on. After all, when you have done all you can, just stand on the foundation God has outlined.

"Dear Lord, I intercede now for all who have seen their relationships torn apart, despite attempts made to restore, renew and remove everything spitefully used to abuse and alter their lives. Father, I need you to rescue and rebuild broken hearts. Please heal and bring wholeness to hurting lives. Forgive sin and bring meaning and fulfilment into broken lives. Hearts are being surrendered so you can take control. Lord, help us to remain in love with You so we can love those who have chosen to leave, listen to others and let what You have taught us in Your Word be slighted and misused. Now Lord, I am confident that you will never depart, forsake, nor hurt us as we surrender our all to you. Help us to move on; to live, love and learn.
Amen.
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James Cruse EWIW